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@MagicVish No, no. For the field Which database to use do not enter redis but enter 0. You already chose redis earlier in the setup. This field instructs NodeBB which redis database to populate and use. The databases start at 0 and increase incrementally. If this is your first and only redis database 0 is the answer.
@Kowlin Hey, thank you for your time in response, and for sure i have done my research on this amazing software forum, i agree it is one of a kind
i have VPS server,
you know anyone that can possibly help ?