Since I shared a few days ago that I have not been active here as I dealt with the imminent death of my brother, I thought I'd share now – at the risk of too much sharing – that my brother died this morning.
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teresa_athomereplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your memories.
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Godfrey642replied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy
As always your words are magnificently full and appropriate. Brimming with love for your brother and those dear to him in his life.
I am absolutely convinced that these profound forms of love never die.
"Life is a precious gift and we must live it while it is given to us". So your gift to Philip is to do just that. To the full; as a way of honouring him -
William Lindsey :toad:replied to Pollinators last edited by
@Pollinators Thank you so much.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to lupus_blackfur last edited by
@lupus_blackfur Thank you. I appreciate your kindness.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to the roamer last edited by
@the_roamer Thank you so much, and for your beautiful summation of what life is about. I'm thinking this morning of a statement made by Jacqui Lewis, a pastor in New York City. She says,
“Love. Period. Everything else is commentary.”
That strikes me as so true, so simple. And I love how it's deeply rooted in Jewish tradition, too, with Hillel's statement,
"'What is hateful to you, do not to your neighbou'r: that is the whole Torah, while the rest is the commentary thereof."
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@DebR Thank you so much.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Wizard Bear (💉x8 + 😷) last edited by
@WizardBear Thank you for your kindness.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Looking for explanations… last edited by
@Susan60 Thank you so much. Yes, for me, writing is often therapeutic. It allows me to take what is inside me and put it outside, on paper (as it were — on the computer screen). Doing that helps externalize feelings and put them into perspective, I find, and helps organize ideas.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Rich Stein (he/him) last edited by
@RunRichRun Thank you so much. I'm very grateful to you.
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@Bodling You're right: death is what's impossible ever to get used to, isn't it? It's an obscenity, when all is said and done, one we naturally rebel against accepting.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Danetteb 🕊️🐦🔥⚓️🕯️🪷 last edited by
@Danetteb Thank you so much. Yes, a big loss, to lose a sibling who shares one's history in a way no one else can ever share it.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to teresa_athome last edited by
@teresa_athome Thank you for your kindness.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Godfrey642 last edited by
@Godfrey642 Thank you. I am very grateful to you.
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@wdlindsy That was a beautiful remembrance. Condolences.
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@daliazygas Thank you. I'm very grateful to you.
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Veronica Smithreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy so sorry for your loss.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Veronica Smith last edited by
@Ver0sm1 Thank you. I'm very grateful to you.
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the roamerreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
Thank you, William, for these words. Love and kindness are what matters, and love and kindness will prevail. Thinking of you and your brother Philip today.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to the roamer last edited by
@the_roamer Thank you so much. I'm very grateful to you.
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Steve Woodsreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy Sincere condolences, William.
Your tribute is very touching.
I could not be more different from my own brother, but the world would not be the same without him.