Dating

[draegur@lemm.ee]

... or worse: becoming only more "attractive" to chasers

[draegur@lemm.ee]

he likes: big girls, pretty kitty girls, really witty girls, singin' ditty girls; he likes the leggy girls with the nice thighs; he likes a good chest no matter what size; he likes the belly folds, he likes the sixpacks, really tall queens, and the shortstacks, from the mild girls to the wild girls...

yea
he likes girls

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

Especially since I'm gay

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

"that will be $86"

only kinda /s

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

Not willingly, at least

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Honestly if you lower your standards it gets pretty easy.

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Give it time. Sometimes they can start out vanilla and warm to the idea of kinks through your relationship. Usually those kind of things aren’t set in stone.

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Honestly this is the best way.

[cyberegg@discuss.tchncs.de]

I will absolutely not.

(Just on a note, looks only are a minor priority, if at all.)

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

Now imagine dating exclusively in the furry fandom (while also being gay)

[kolanaki@yiffit.net]

"That's a man, man!"

"Austin, that's my mother!"

"Well you have to admit, she does look a bit man-ish..."

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Love is love, you don’t choose it, it happens.

[cyberegg@discuss.tchncs.de]

How am I supposed to lower my standards then?

[stinky@redlemmy.com]

You top?

[scubus@sh.itjust.works]

Cant drink coffee m8, even the smell makes me throw up

[stinky@redlemmy.com]

[orcrist@lemm.ee]

Of course you know. You just do a lot less of what you're currently doing... And then you likely to have different outcomes... I'm not saying that you should or shouldn't do that, but the knowledge is there.

[dingus@lemmy.world]

People say this all the time, but I've never really understood it. You can't help who you are attracted to. Do a lot of people just have relationships with people they don't find attractive?

I don't find like 99.9999% of people attractive. So I never really bothered attempting to date. The few times I tried, it felt awkward and bad that I couldn't reciprocate what the other person felt. It felt like lying and I'm not really sure what I was supposed to be getting out of something like that.

Legitimately curious.

[zron@lemmy.world]

Ah yes, people love it when another person has such a weak constitution that they can’t handle the smell of incredibly common drinks

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

Switch ^^