Dating

[zron@lemmy.world]

I’d rather be assumed attractive than to remove all doubt.

Go hangout at a Starbucks in a target if you want to meet women, they’re certainly not going to wander into your bedroom.

[draegur@lemm.ee]

you, standing on a cliff overlooking the horizon, and ten billion light-years away there is a point you will never, ever be physically capable of reaching because the very expansion of the cosmic medium itself will move it further away from you than it already is now even if you traveled in that direction at the speed of light for ten billion years.

caption: finding a girl who finds YOU attractive

[draegur@lemm.ee]

... or worse: becoming only more "attractive" to chasers

[draegur@lemm.ee]

he likes: big girls, pretty kitty girls, really witty girls, singin' ditty girls; he likes the leggy girls with the nice thighs; he likes a good chest no matter what size; he likes the belly folds, he likes the sixpacks, really tall queens, and the shortstacks, from the mild girls to the wild girls...

yea
he likes girls

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

Especially since I'm gay

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

"that will be $86"

only kinda /s

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

Not willingly, at least

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Honestly if you lower your standards it gets pretty easy.

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Give it time. Sometimes they can start out vanilla and warm to the idea of kinks through your relationship. Usually those kind of things aren’t set in stone.

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Honestly this is the best way.

[cyberegg@discuss.tchncs.de]

I will absolutely not.

(Just on a note, looks only are a minor priority, if at all.)

[wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world]

Now imagine dating exclusively in the furry fandom (while also being gay)

[kolanaki@yiffit.net]

"That's a man, man!"

"Austin, that's my mother!"

"Well you have to admit, she does look a bit man-ish..."

[fundmecfsresearch@lemmy.blahaj.zone]

Love is love, you don’t choose it, it happens.

[cyberegg@discuss.tchncs.de]

How am I supposed to lower my standards then?

[stinky@redlemmy.com]

You top?

[scubus@sh.itjust.works]

Cant drink coffee m8, even the smell makes me throw up

[stinky@redlemmy.com]

[orcrist@lemm.ee]

Of course you know. You just do a lot less of what you're currently doing... And then you likely to have different outcomes... I'm not saying that you should or shouldn't do that, but the knowledge is there.

[dingus@lemmy.world]

People say this all the time, but I've never really understood it. You can't help who you are attracted to. Do a lot of people just have relationships with people they don't find attractive?

I don't find like 99.9999% of people attractive. So I never really bothered attempting to date. The few times I tried, it felt awkward and bad that I couldn't reciprocate what the other person felt. It felt like lying and I'm not really sure what I was supposed to be getting out of something like that.

Legitimately curious.