@calisti for a long time i didn't really stand up for myself, and i was pretty conflict aversethis did me no favors and led to me getting fucked over a few times.towards the end of 2024 i got mad enough about a few things that i started advocating for myself and not holding back where i previously would haveand it worked, i am now suddenly rapidly getting where i want to be and am making up for lost timelike the ents in the lord of the rings, i woke up and realized i am strong