i notice a pattern of some people, who have very angry personalities. always angry about something, always gotta complain about something... nothing kind in their heart to shareand they move from place to place, and they're rude and pushy and aggressive to everyone in their new spacethen those other people push back against their toxic behaviorand they complain this new place is just full of such terrible people, and move on againdo they never realize they're the problem? i don't get it? it's so much easier to hold kindnesssometimes it's our fault. sometimes we push other people's boundaries and they say no. sometimes we don't get what we want. it's not needed to make everyone have a bad day over it