I want
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
No, he’s offering to do what he wants to do.
Reasserting this. I have a vulva and HATE receiving oral. I am up front about this - it is not taking time to pleasure me, it does not feel good to me. I have still had men whine, or start doing it anyway, or bitch about it.
Offering an unwanted sex act is not a kindness. Anyone who thinks that it is does not have the understanding of consent or human sexuality that is necessary to participate in sex.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
Desperation just makes you less attractive duh.
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You need to realize that not everyone is meant to have a "normal" experience of life, that you aren't owed anything, and to detach yourself from expectations and desires.
You probably never wanted those things in the first place before someone planted it in your head that you need them.
You take what you get and expect nothing. Anything else invites suffering. AI is about to take everything from us, we might even by in for the whole torture nexus experience!
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
What is bro rambling about?
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FTFY
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
He is the worlds dumbest man, so I don't know really.
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[Redacted]
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
Damn straight! I don't wanna be exposed to no fucking cussing.
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[email protected]replied to go $fsck yourself last edited by
Blocked and reported for using naughty words.
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[email protected]replied to u/lukmly013 💾 (lemmy.sdf.org) last edited by
A masterpiece! Bravo!
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
If they didn't ask for it, and don't want it, it's not 'giving' the other person anything. This is how a lot of sexual assault works; the rapist tells the other person they're enjoying it and does things like this, and then goes 'well I did (whatever act) for them, so I'm the good guy here.' This idea that performing oral/touching the other person/etc without direct stimulation back is entirely about the person receiving is false, has always been false, and will continue to be false. This is dangerous ground we're on here, and we're better than this.
Seriously, the opening words are I want. I don't know how much more direct it would have to be here.
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[email protected]replied to go $fsck yourself last edited by
This, coming from someone who just wants everyone to check their own filesystems.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
I’m praying for you and I’m an atheist. Haha
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Rofl. Okay, this is a good post to stop scrolling on. Thank you for sharing
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
This is kind of meme, that if I was a priest (hypothetically that is, I am not one) and my congregation (again hypotheical, I dont have one) would send it to my aunt, I would see this as a kind of betryal. Would anyone agree?
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pissy juice
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[email protected]replied to go $fsck yourself last edited by
Censoring is dumb but adding a dumb copypasta to the experience does not make an improvement
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Sounds like a keeper. lol
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
Noone said it was entirely altruistic, but I'll give it you for beating that strawman to death. I was initially arguing against the notion that it couldn't be for her benefit at all. Its called nuance, and relationships take two people. I'm not sure why you jumped to rape, noones getting raped in this meme. Its not even clear the girl is actually refusing him rather than just being funny.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
You’re something else Mr. Owl.