I want

[frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe]

That is considerate. What about it do you think isn't?

[rekorse@sh.itjust.works]

Unironically, you have it right.

[rekorse@sh.itjust.works]

Getting pleasure from providing pleasure does not not negate that its still providing pleasure for someone else.

[kusimulkku@lemm.ee]

It's just funny thing to say

[kusimulkku@lemm.ee]

I really didn't follow what you meant with this reply. I just thought what you wrote earlier was funny

[gift_of_gab@lemmy.world]

First time I get that remark…

Funny enough, growing up I got tired of hearing women complain ...

I believe this is when the kids say 'lol.'

The dude is actively offering to pleasure the girl

No, he's offering to do what he wants to do. It's not universal that women want that; it's not universal that women want anyone to do that; it's not universal that women want that specific person to do that. This is how we got rape in Revenge of the Nerds because a bunch of guys went "yeah but she liked it, right?"

[undaunted@discuss.tchncs.de]

You mean your friend is cheating on you and your friendship? Then yes. Your gf would definitely not be cheating here.

[nelots@lemm.ee]

So if your friend sends your girlfriend a sexual meme, did she just cheat on you? No, that's fucking dumb.

Hell, even if she were the one that sent it to him, it still wouldn't be cheating. But I could at least understand where someone is coming from if they thought it was. Blaming the GF for the friend's actions though? Lol okay.

[theangryseal@lemmy.world]

Damn dude. I want you to be happy, but maybe don’t date until you’ve talked to a therapist about shit like this.

[pm_me_vintage_30s@lemmy.sdf.org]

No notes.

[prime_minister_keyes@lemm.ee]

It is really some of his better work, and that's saying something since u/lukmly013 has never created a single meme that is compromised, shameful, made for simply pragmatic reasons, or uninteresting. Even his failures are spectacular due to his Wagnerian treatment of subjects. I read a quote somewhere where, ironically, he once said he considers his prose and poetry writings as having more enduring value than his memes.

[lurch@sh.itjust.works]

They would like to have ppl self censor the war instead, but it's a far away dream as there hasn't been a day without an armed conflict in over 6000 years.

[owl@infosec.pub]

This is kind of meme, that if I had a therapist (hypothetically that is, I don’t have one) and my girlfriend (again hypothetical, don't have one either) would send it to my therapist, I would see this as a kind of cheating. Would anyone agree?

[owl@infosec.pub]

I mean my girlfriend can of course not be blamed for messages she receives, but I would see is as cheating from the side of my (hypothetical) friend, or if my hypothetical girlfriend would engage in this.

[owl@infosec.pub]

Thank you, that is what I meant, I have clarified it thank you.

[andros_rex@lemmy.world]

No, he’s offering to do what he wants to do.

Reasserting this. I have a vulva and HATE receiving oral. I am up front about this - it is not taking time to pleasure me, it does not feel good to me. I have still had men whine, or start doing it anyway, or bitch about it.

Offering an unwanted sex act is not a kindness. Anyone who thinks that it is does not have the understanding of consent or human sexuality that is necessary to participate in sex.

[worldsdumbestman@lemmy.today]

Desperation just makes you less attractive duh.

[worldsdumbestman@lemmy.today]

You need to realize that not everyone is meant to have a "normal" experience of life, that you aren't owed anything, and to detach yourself from expectations and desires.

You probably never wanted those things in the first place before someone planted it in your head that you need them.

You take what you get and expect nothing. Anything else invites suffering. AI is about to take everything from us, we might even by in for the whole torture nexus experience!

[grammarpolice@lemmy.world]

What is bro rambling about?

[klear@lemmy.world]

FTFY