Imagine we'd meet with sentient, cultural and civilisational aliens, but we'd find each other boring

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We bond with inanimate objects and people can find the ugliest animals we can and try to keep them as pets.

We’re such an overly empathetic and social species that I don’t think we will have too much issue wanting to befriend aliens if we could communicate.

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I think this says more about you and your mindset. When I was a kid and the internet was a big new thing, I was blown away that I could play chess with someone from Poland, or Venezuela, or India. I did nothing but explore as a kid on the internet. I know this feeling you're talking about because I get it now in middle age quite a bit. This feeling of bored. Why go on vacation and spend all this money, I know what a beach is, there's nothing novel. Even visiting monuments or going to concerts. Eh the music sounds better on my stereo anyways. For a revelation like this to actually be... not boring, I think access and curiosity need to be strong. If they are individuals like us and we can communicate, wouldn't you want to talk to them? Ask them how they think? What their history is? Someone else mentioned in this thread, and I think it's likely, that they would be so different thatcommunication or common ground like this is probably not likely. But I don't think it makes it boring, just different. Even to be able to talk to another species and communicate complex ideas would be mind blowing. Honestly, I think the vast majority of people would take your stance, and actually, technically already do. There are other species on this planet like dolphins and whales that regularly talk to each other. They have names and make sentences. The fact that humanity largely doesn't care, and proceeds stomping on them and their habitats makes me think that the ridiculous unobtainium plot line from avatar is actually more likely than I think it is. In my mind, life and intelligence is rarer than any mineral we could ever use, but we don't recognize its value. It's fucking sad. We're all on this rollercoaster called life for a short time. I'd rather talk to dolphins than wear shiny golden Prada bags. </rant>

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Unless we have a way around general relativity, boring will describe any conservation with another civilization.
Hello.
wait 1000 years
Hi. How are you?
wait 1000 years
Who the fuck are these guys?

Space is really, really, really big. And by comparison any form of communication we have yet discovered is very slow.

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Stargate SG-1, S05 E10, "2001"

The Aschen have all the tech that humanity needs to fight the Goa'uld but they are super boring. Also secretly genocidal.

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Yes to both.

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we can and try to keep them as pets

more like the aliens will keep us as pets

Amputret

It took flack? Never heard anyone complain about it before.

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That's when the deep philosophical questions are asked.

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That's what you people would do, but my glorious group would be much more enlightened!

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Bold accusation.

Sure it would be mind-blowing, but society-wide awe about other(ed) societies on this planet has largely waned off and many people do not care about the lives of people deemed other.

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Nah you can just rely on a revolving door of new shiny interests and peer pressure your friends into picking up the fad too.. because that’s healthy

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Or even just smell nice?

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Beyond lies the Wub

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Yeah, it has some very low reviews and it wasn't very socially accepted as the great movie it actually was. People who understood the underlying issues the movie was putting in the forefront, understood how amazing the movie was.

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I literally cannot imagine that.

Even being boring would be fascinating. If their society was identical to ours it would be fascinating and we could learn from that. If all they did was watch TV all day, they would still be fascinating.

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What if it was a cognitive phenomena scp style where it's like forced ADHD when interacting with the other species?

Wait, no... That's still interesting

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I hear you, I don't mean to accuse or project anything on you. It is a valid question. But boredom by its very definition is something to do about our internal state and feelings, and not about the external object (or sentient race) in question. To some extent, we decide whether or not to be bored with something. A rock outside my house appears boring, but that is my lack of creativity. Maybe it is useful as a firepit stone, maybe I can split it open and there is a fossil inside, maybe I can study it and find out what type it is, maybe I can gather enough a make a pulley system to the roof. But boredom is a decision.