The rules are made up and the points don't matter
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[email protected]replied to AwesomeLowlander last edited by
Your comment, it’s probably not, it’s probably something else, really doesn’t lend itself to allowing it.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
...why though?
Reminds me of a favorite line from a song, "I don't want you to romanticize falling the fuck apart"
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[email protected]replied to Dragon Rider (drag) last edited by
They are and they do, but this example is extreme. Having been on both sides of this, I'd say no one should have to live their life in fear of every little interaction. It's exhausting, and you will never succeed in getting every person to leave you alone anyway. But this doesn't have to be "the way it is." You can actually change and make your life easier. Sometimes it takes help and a long time, but I believe most people can do it if they really want to.
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[email protected]replied to Dragon Rider (drag) last edited by
They make me anxious...
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
Leave, wave "hi" at them and continue on.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
We normalize everything now.
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It is normal social behavior to at least acknowledge other people
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AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppetreplied to [email protected] last edited by
Lots of yellow-belly masquerading as introverts round these parts.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
democracy is based on the idea that we want others to be treated fairly
I think the last few months have more than proven that is not the case.
Democracy, in its most common implementation, is based on the idea of the tyranny of the majority. This often runs counter to the concept of treating others fairly.
People who suffer anxiety are in the minority - and they are forced to navigate a world of people who expect them to conform with their social norms.
We should just live and let live.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
Regular Scandinavian life.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
I don't even have anxiety and I think this is relatable. It's not even necessarily fear, but maybe not having the bandwidth to be social in that moment.
Spoons, etc
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
Because then you have to make pointless small talk and pleasantries, and I need to save all of those for the boring people I don't want to talk to at work.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
That's not what they said though
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
They likely have high anxiety, possibly an anxiety disorder. It’s just a relatable representation of that in comic form
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
“Probably not [thing]”.
That’s equivalent to “isn’t necessarily [thing]”.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
…why though?
Anxiety disorders are a group of mental disorders characterized by significant and uncontrollable feelings of anxiety and fear such that a person's social, occupational, and personal functions are significantly impaired.
Expressing your struggles is not the same as romanticizing them. You should self interrogate why you assume they are the same
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[email protected]replied to AwesomeLowlander last edited by
of course it’s a comic with fake characters with no objective truth to be found…
but the artist is a vocal mental health advocate
…it’s 100% about anxiety
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
You aren't necessarily good at modal statements.
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[email protected]replied to [email protected] last edited by
expressing struggles with a common disorder is not normalizing the disorder. this is a mean comment.
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