@pitaj I've already fixed everything, as my site is small,. and it was a product of my own laziness not backing up images. I don't remember what plugins, not sure about the activated ones i think all of the non-stock plugins got removed.
@bentael Thanks for getting back to me and for all your help. In the end, Nifty took over my access to DigitalOcean and managed to set up Nodebb with my Mybb import.
It didn't work out the way he wanted, he had to dump on my droplet, the install he had worked out on his own computer with the import already included.
His guess was that my droplet was fighting the import since I had chosen the 512mo ram plan.
@zenkamal I have no idea, the last 3 events were editing posts, I had app running in dev mode for an hour, no issues, I then started it normally and left terminal open on the logs while I went out, came back, no issues. I'll keep an eye on it, but since enabling swap, hopefully I won't have any more issues. 😄