Dating

[cyberegg@discuss.tchncs.de]

Now try finding someone you find attractive and who also finds you attractive in return (it's impossible).

[n3cr0@lemmy.world]

The upper one depicts the guys around me. I Gan go through the lower one, but the result is usually this.

[stinky@redlemmy.com]

now imagine being gay and the dating pool is 90% smaller.

[walrusdragononabike@reddthat.com]

Be ace and the dating pool is 100% smaller.

[krafting@lemmy.world]

Be me and the dating pool is 200% smaller.

[stinky@redlemmy.com]

Aro/ace: "good".

[emi@ani.social]

I'm bi myself and a shut in. How do you find people in general I don't know.

[koboldcoterie@pawb.social]

I swear this has the opposite effect. In more than one instance, I've told someone I'm ace and it's made them more persistent, like they're thinking 'Oh, I can fix that.' No, I assure you, you can't. Please stop.

[deceptichum@quokk.au]

From what I understand if you just stay in front of the computer that they will magically manifest inside your home.

[foxyferengi@lemm.ee]

I miss acedatespace. There's acespace.love, but that's more like people shouting into the void than an actual dating site.

[emi@ani.social]

Amazing, I'll just keep doing that thanks.

[flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz]

I did a calculation once about my chances of finding a compatible long-term partner, based on the Drake Equation Drake Equation and many many assumptions. The numbers are not good: ~22 out of 8 billion.

[deestan@lemmy.world]

I've heard that it also goes faster if you complain about women being evil and stupid on the computer.

[wartowel@lemmy.world]

So you're saying there's a chance

[usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca]

Better start learning the most popular languages. Odds are most of those 22 don't speak English.

[ivanafterall@lemmy.world]

When you find a (rare!) female online, you must protect her at all costs. She will be surrounded by ne'er-do-wells and men of ill-intent. You are her knight. She is your lady. You must never doubt yourself in this. Nature will take its course.

That's when you start negging her.

[trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world]

Yall need to lower your expectations god damn

[boreengreen@lemm.ee]

If you like each other and you share most values, there is your partner. If your partner is good looking as well; great for you guys!

[edgemaster72@lemmy.world]

I only need to make 1 assumption to solve that equation for me

0% of people would find me attractive

QE fucking D

[recklessengagement@lemmy.world]

I'm curious about the math you did to come to that final number