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[quinvxby@sh.itjust.works]

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[lordnikon@lemmy.world]

I think this describes 99% of incels

[tacosanonymous@lemm.ee]

Can’t have what I want, don’t want what I can have.

The world is truly against me.

[arbitraryvalue@sh.itjust.works]

It would be very nice if being conventionally unattractive also made a person attracted to other conventionally unattractive people.

I wonder what hurts more: the unfulfilled asymmetric entitlement shown in the comic or intellectual honesty of the "I wouldn't be attracted to me, so I shouldn't expect most other people to be attracted to me either" sort. Probably the honesty, since many people pick experiencing the entitlement.

[proton_lynx@lemmy.world]

When I like them, they don't like me, when they like me, I don't like them.

— George Costanza

[sumguyonline@lemmy.world]

Are people are claiming this is how men are? They aren't. Most lonely men would date a mop head if it was nice to them.
If men aren't interested in you, it's probably your actions, and personality, keeping them from reciprocating attraction. Try being a good homosapien, then people will respond better in general.
Now if you idiots are still trying to force attractive men to date wildabeasts, and this is actually you trying to make a swipe at attractive men that won't date thunderthighs and a face like melted ice cream, try treating the unattractive men like humans, every single ugly dude I know would fall overthemselves to have a fat pile of ice cream treat them like a human being.

[glytch@lemmy.world]

Overall I think the entitlement hurts more, especially over time, but it's a lot easier to blame external factors than it is to look inward and see where you can improve yourself.

There may be more initial hurt from being honest with yourself, but once you get past that initial hurt and begin working on yourself, you find things you love about yourself and don't need the external validation as much as you thought you did. Honesty it the first step on the journey of self-improvement and ultimately self-love. Once you love yourself it's easier for other people to see what's lovable about you.

Entitlement just makes you angry at other people and drives them away, leaving you alone with your anger.

[thefogan@programming.dev]

Are people are claiming this is how men are?

I think what's intended is that's how many PEOPLE are. Not all.. not most... but I definately hear that kind of talk from a lot of people.

If you go to dating apps you'll hear over and over "I hate these apps, whenever I get a like it's someone horribly ugly".

[glytch@lemmy.world]

Not men in general. Just incels.

Ironic that you suggest treating men like humans when you describe women as wildebeasts and fat piles of ice cream.

You should take your own advice and be a good homo sapien.

[zorque@lemmy.world]

One might say it's their defining trait

[surewhynotlem@lemmy.world]

If men were nice to them, the mops would be willing.

Women really don't ask for much.

Source: I have children

[altasshet@lemmy.ca]

Was ich haben will, das krieg ich nicht
Und was kriegen kann, das gefällt mir nicht
Ich will nicht was ich seh'
Ich will was ich erträume
Ich bin mir nicht sicher
Ob ich mit dir nichts versäume

[buddascrayon@lemmy.world]

Ok, bit of a nit pick here but just cause she's also not conventionally pretty doesn't mean he can "have her".

[edgemaster72@lemmy.world]

I'm in camp #2, I think camp #1 would be worse, cuz you'd end up trying and failing and getting rejected. Can't be disappointed if you never have hope to begin with.

[lost_my_mind@lemmy.world]

"I would never join a club that would allow someone like me as a member."

[lost_my_mind@lemmy.world]

We have very different dating apps.

I get "I hate these apps. I don't know what to say."

And thats their whole bio, with like 20 bikini photos. And then I skip, because yeah, you look pretty and all, but I'm lonely and want to talk and talk and talk, and you apperently have the conversatiomal value of a fish.

Or the other apps the women all want to travel. I just want to find an evil woman, who wants to stay home, tie me up, tickle me, and ignore any pleas to stop. Then, it's my turn to tie her up, and be evil!

What? Did you think I was calling all women evil? Pssshhh! I wish! How hott would THAT be???

[morrowind@lemmy.ml]

It's implied that she likes him, at least more than the other ladies

[zib@lemmy.world]

I've been in the honesty camp for the last decade, however I've come to accept that I'll never love myself. I still have my anger, but I focus it inward where it belongs.

[glytch@lemmy.world]

As long as you aren't blaming others for that anger.

Also go easier on yourself, I'm willing to bet you don't deserve the amount of anger you direct at yourself. I realize that probably doesn't mean a whole lot coming from someone who doesn't know you or your situation, but it's something to consider

[rbwells@lemmy.world]

At least he doesn't say it out loud.