@jinglepostman @KarenStrickholm Thank you both for the wonderful list of book recommendations.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Karen Strickholm last edited by
@KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman She was — and, tragically, she died tragically young at the age of 31 less than three years after marrying my great-uncle. They had a son born in 1922 and she immediately discovered she had advanced t.b. and went off to a treatment place, then came home to die. My great-uncle never recovered. They were a real love match, as her diary indicated. Her family were well-educated and wealthy Massachusetts folks who came to Arkansas after the Civil War.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman My great-uncle was a son of a small central Arkansas farmer and Irish immigrant mother. He had no education to speak of and certainly no money. But they were head over heels in love with each other and married despite her family's opposition, which she mentions delicately in her diary.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Karen Strickholm last edited by
@KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman Love to hear about it!
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Elizabeth S.replied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy Oh, that's heartbreaking! and their son had to grow up without his mother. I hope her family reconciled before she died.
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Karen Strickholmreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy @jinglepostman This sounds great! And also like it could be a wonderful film.
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Karen Strickholmreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy @jinglepostman That is such a sad but beautiful love story. Spent a good bit of time studying that wedding photograph, there is so much in it. Maybe she was already sick then. I could write a few pages on it... If I had a bit more energy. Noy sure I do, bur I'm thinking the thoughts about it.
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Karen Strickholmreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy @jinglepostman I have to remember to tell y'all about the tb sanitoriums out here and in Denver. The altitude and dry air.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Karen Strickholm last edited by
@KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman The sanitorium to which Frances went was in Denver. I had avoid saying that because I never know the correct spelling of the word "sanitorium"! Tragically, she was one of three sisters who lived to adulthood, and her two sisters Ruth and Mary also died of t.b., though not at Frances' young age. Like her, they were very well-educated women. Both did much to educate and serve the local community, and they raised Frances' son after she died. Neither married.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Karen Strickholm last edited by [email protected]
@KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman That's a good question: whether Frances was already sick when she married, but didn't know it. The photo was taken on the porch of her family's house in Little Rock. She was apparently quite smitten with John, who's said to have been a looker (below), though I can't say I myself see the appeal! He died two years before I was born, so I never knew him. I did know three of my great-uncles on that side of the family, and dearly loved two of them.
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Karen Strickholm last edited by
@KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman Definitely a novelistic story.
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@wdlindsy @KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman to take nothing away from the cherished ancestor or her headress & sumptuous flowers, look at the simplicity of the handmade dress with the pearl trim & the perfect drape of the skirt overlay
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@wdlindsy @KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman Interesting family history. We forget TB here in the US, but it remains a scourge in the world. Getting back to books, I learned that by reading _Mountains Beond Mountains_, an inspiring biography of the late Dr Paul Farmer. (Incidentally, my Brooklyn great aunt survived TB in an Adirondack sanitorium & went on to marry a physician she met there).
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William Lindsey :toad:replied to Elizabeth S. last edited by
@jinglepostman Frances actually had two maiden sisters who raised their son. Frances' father was from Canton and her mother from Peabody. They were an admirable family in that they stressed education. Frances' mother was a Mount Holyoke graduate. The family sent their daughters back from Arkansas to Massachusetts for education: Frances to Wellesley, Mary to Mount Holyoke, Ruth to Abbott. Then the three daughters went on to do graduate degrees — accomplished women.
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@3dogcouch @KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman Yes, we tend to have forgotten TB — and I fear many communicable diseases we've forgotten about could surge back as people get bitten by bugs of vaccination denialism. I attended an interesting lecture last year about TB treatment which told me something I had not known: that there was a stigma attached to it for young women because myths claimed women got TB for being licentious.
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@3dogcouch @KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman I fear this snippet from the newspaper article about their marriage (Arkansas Gazette, 18 June 1921) is murky, but it describes the dress in detail. The article also features the same picture of Frances in her wedding dress I shared. The photo I shared was my grandmother's. She and my grandfather attended the wedding.
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@wdlindsy @KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman Lovely. Orange blossoms in her hair!
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@3dogcouch @KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman I have a set of photos that must have been taken on her wedding day as she and her sisters prepared for her wedding. They were all out on the back porch of her family, helping each other fix their hair, and so on — really charming photos of the three of them looking happy on a bright June day as one prepared to marry.
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Karen Strickholmreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy @jinglepostman Another fascinating photo! Oh yes I can see that's a handsome man of the upper class.
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Karen Strickholmreplied to William Lindsey :toad: last edited by
@wdlindsy @3dogcouch @jinglepostman Wow I'd love to see those if you have shots!
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@wdlindsy @KarenStrickholm @jinglepostman oh wow, I had never heard that before! It is hard to imagine Aunt Mary licentious...