thing i wish id been told earlier and more forcefully:

[miriamrobern@dice.camp]

thing i wish id been told earlier and more forcefully:

transition happens in waves.

youll have months where its big and huge and everything you think about, and then youll have months when it recedes and things get comfortable.

its easy to think, at that low ebb, that maybe youve got to the other side of the initial hard parts. you havent. itll come back. more stuff will happen, youll muddle through Big Thoughts.

its marathon, not a sprint.