Does anyone else feel a sense of guilt when they think of NSFW stuff? :konata_cry:
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a mercurial mess of random thoughtsreplied to Maxxy last edited by
@[email protected] of course
it's human nature — in fact, a very important part of human nature — but society has made it very taboo -
@f00fc7c8 I just feel so bad because I thought someone was really hot :8418_Aqua_cry: I wish I allowed myself to think normally
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Maxxyreplied to a mercurial mess of random thoughts last edited by
@writeblankspace I know it’s normal but it makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong…
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@fujiwara Looking at it no, but I do wish I could talk to more people about it haha
I also roll with a more lewd wallpaper on weekends but switch back to more wholesome stuff on weekdays so I'm usually seeing a lot of it haha
But yeah, everyone has different preferences so it's a little hard to talk about it but at least there're nice online communities for it
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@fujiwara Not anymore.
I used to, then I found out everyone also thinks lewd thoughts and they considered it the norm. But I was still afraid I thought of them too much.
Then, when I eventually realised I'm ace and I actually don't think lewd thoughts as often as allosexual people, I stopped feeling ashamed about it. Not to mention I don't lewd irl people, which apparently allosexual people do? Not that I will police what other people think, but it is a freaky concept to me.
So if allos don't have any qualms about all of these, why should I?
It also helps to have T suppressed and my tastes mellowing out over time.
And as for other NSFW things, like workplace safety violations, I don't feel guilty. In fact, it seems important to think about them :AquaShrug: /silly
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I don’t think like that about irl people, honestly the thought of it just makes me feel bad. I don’t see how people could even do that :ChikaREEEE:
I’m definitely not ace but I just don’t find myself thinking like that a lot. Maybe that’s because I grew up sheltered from everything :btr_ryo_lurk: I just worry I find myself thinking of boobs too much and that I’m turning into a pervert. It didn’t bother me when other people talk about sex related things so I don’t know why I feel so bad when I think of a chest…
Also screw OSHA! I’ll climb whatever ladder I want!
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@fujiwara me reading this while taking a break from looking at porn during work.
I do think that having people to talk to about NSFW topics really helps, which I don't really have either...
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NaraMoore ⛩️👻八尺様👻⛩️ (Author)replied to Maxxy last edited by
@fujiwara Socialization is a bitch. It's not NSFW stuff that gets me. It's the money spent on my idol obsession.
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@fujiwara Boobs are soooo tame, so don't worry about it! I think you're safely on the innocent end, if we're measuring lewdness on a spectrum.
But honestly, lewd thoughts are fine, even if they are really kinky. What really makes someone a pervert is acting on those desires without the other party's consent. It's like the difference between running people over in GTA and actually murdering people irl.
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Retro Goth Bunnyreplied to dopey (they/them) last edited by
@dopey_kun @fujiwara Maybe people on fedi need to create a ${nsfw_thing} interest club :aquajiji:
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@rgbunny I know that it is very tame, so I don’t understand why I get this way :kagami_laugh: I’m really just worrying about nothing, honestly. I need to embrace my love of boobs and stop thinking dumb things :btr_ryo_lurk:
Also I would never do that to anyone else! That would actually make me feel horrible :ChikaScared:
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@rgbunny @dopey_kun … i can’t say I wouldn’t join a boobs interest group
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@fujiwara Not really, though I'm on the weird side of things! I've casually watched and consumed lewd media just for fun.
I think is ways, it inoculated me from feeling as bad over time? But don't worry too much, you're doing nothing wrong AT all! Just enjoy what you enjoy and at whatever level feels comfortable.
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@fujiwara Modern society has really made anything lewd, no matter how tame, into something shameful. But it shouldn't be; (almost) everyone has lewd thoughts.
And the people who push for this stance are probably predators themselves, projecting their inability to curb their desires onto everyone else who can.
But yeah, nothing wrong with liking boobs! In the worst case, just say you were talking about the birds called boobies :tomo_MimimiLaugh:
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@rgbunny Society ruining yet another normal thing :ChoiMad: thanks for helping me clear my mind though. I need to stop worrying so much, I’m just a normal person. Besides, I definitely have a bunch of defining qualities as a person anyway :zerotwoevillaugh: