Staying off fedi but I can corroborate a lot of the stuff that's gone on

Vivisector "The Mom of Fedi" :veryfriedegg:

Staying off fedi but I can corroborate a lot of the stuff that's gone on
Ashten didn't take action against Hanna until I grilled her about it for a week or two constantly and I've recently learned that she knew about it at least a month before I brought it to her attention and she did nothing
She allowed Hanna to remove evidence
Did nothing about Caitlyn until being publicly called out for it
Ended up turning against the girls she claimed to be a godmother of after allowing them to be groomed, sometimes more than once
And specifically put slander against Allissa for criticizing her
Dragging Allissa back in to it this time when Allissa has not really been on Fedi
Ashten also has had people follow me to try and pry out information and preempt that I was going to make moves about her while I was trying to recover and stay out of things for my own mental health, to the point of having people eavesdrop on my accounts
The people she's stated she wants to protect are the same ones she's thrown under the bus, blamed, and abandoned when they got hurt by abusers she allowed and enabled, not to mention Ashten's own behavior
She also got DM records from victims after Hanna on the condition that she wrote/submitted a report about it and never did so
Her actions have not supported the values she reports to have
Talking to Ashten in private or public has not lead to any positive change and her response is denial and disinformation campaigns
I've seen a lot of the evidence and spoken to many of the victims myself over a number of months and there's a lot I cannot share but nothing is good
I regret any benefit of the doubt I've ever tried to give her
Whether things are malice or carelessness or incompetence does not matter at this point
The number of victims is countless and it's clear she is a toxic person to be around, even ignoring her role as administrator, and I personally cannot stand by trusting her or those close to her

I'm still going to try and stay on Fedi, but I wanted to set the record straight where I stand on this
Her response posts never actually debunk any of the evidence and are misdirection and strawman arguments that do not align with record or testimony
Please stop expecting victims to martyr themselves just to provide proof because you don't want to believe someone you are close to is abusive
It's disgusting
I am disgusted
And beyond burnt out and used up
I feel like I have often been a pawn in her game and trying to support her and give her the benefit of the doubt has only ever lead to things being turned against me when I try and stand up for people

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] i just had to comfort one of the victims and try to convince them to stay off of fedi because they were doing self harm... while reading the responses to people accusing them of making everything up and leah's response... so yeah. this is all fucked up.

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] everyone sees the victims publicly but i have had to console several of them and tell them i believe them. we've had to sit there reaffirming each other saying that there's no hard feelings. Hell, even I broke down to Allissa and apologized profusely she had to tell me multiple times she didn't have any problems with me. This shit has been horrible on everyone's mental health.

Vivisector "The Mom of Fedi" :veryfriedegg:

@puppygirlhornypost2 People should not have to do this but console one fucking victim of this and come back and tell me that this is all nothing

jolly ezzy

@Vivisector @puppygirlhornypost2 to the victim if they can read this,
I believe you
What you experienced was horrible
you are valid for coming out
We love you and you are cared for

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] @[email protected] thanks, you're talking to two of the adult victims in this thread.