I'm in my 30's and still have no fucking idea what would be expected of me if I ever went on a date, partly because I don't even know how to find people I might be interested in dating.
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I'm in my 30's and still have no fucking idea what would be expected of me if I ever went on a date, partly because I don't even know how to find people I might be interested in dating.
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@soatok they fall out of the sky.
there's like the average expectations but you don't have to follow them.
I also like, just went to movies with straight friends sometimes. wasn't actually a date.
plus there's other things they might ask for or you might ask for. no pressure.
you'll do fine.
I also had to explain to my ex that I've been "dating" for a decade before I found them, and that's okay.
I learned a lot from being roommates in year two of that relationship. kinda like, being in their corner of the ring, getting extra snuggles as a bonus, but still having separate lives and hobbies.
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@soatok well, I wasn't like rapidly speed dating guys until I found my ex.
it just.. happened.
from super infrequent get-togethers at things.
or super-infrequent usage of apps.