I like having Bluesky because it is a non-Twitter, non-Facebook space where I can hear from all my friends who are unable or unwilling to use Mastodon (a site with real barriers to entry).

Debbie Goldsmith 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈⧖

@mcc I agree with you—I have no interest in being a door-knocker Jehovah's Witness for Mastodon. If someone isn't interested, I don't want to harangue them. It behooves Mastodon to make itself more attractive to those people so if they look at it again in a few years they might try it.

The only thing I try convince Bluesky users of is to enable the Fediverse bridge by following @ap.brid.gy, so those here can interact with them. If they don't like it they can always unfollow to turn it back off.

mcc

@dgoldsmith I mean I think even evangelizing for mastodon might be a good thing, it's just that you won't be an effective evangelist unless you understand the viewpoint of the person you're trying to convince. Even the Jesuits understand that.

Debbie Goldsmith 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈⧖

@mcc Agreed. I think the Fediverse does need to get better at appealing to people who like the old Twitter/Bluesky vibe.

jbaggs

@dgoldsmith @mcc It's not solely about "vibes". I've literally seen people of color, advocating for why "quote toots" are important to them and the way they communicate, being told they just don't understand abuse potential or oppression.

Debbie Goldsmith 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈⧖

@jbaggs @mcc Yeah, that's another issue, unfortunately, which @mcc was alluding to above: the “you're holding it wrong" attitude of some vocal users here.

At least quote posts are finally on the way. The glacial development process due to lack of funds is another problem.

mcc

@dgoldsmith I don't want to use a site that has quote posts

Debbie Goldsmith 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈⧖

@mcc I believe one of the reasons it's taking so long is the user controls (e.g., who can quote your posts). Do you just not want your posts quoted, or do you not want to see quote posts at all?

mcc

@dgoldsmith neither of these options describes my view. I don't want to interact with a community that has access to the quote post verb

damon

@josuetorres @mcc Id say everything things. Choosing an instance, people claims it doesn’t matter but it absolutely does. People don’t know how important it is when they’re faced with a decision. Gatekeepers. People have been doing social for decades but only this space does people feel comfortable harassing and telling people how to use their own damn accounts. Lack of Black and Brown people. They are culture drivers and many mastodon users have admitted to not wanting that, they expect Black & Brown folks to capitulate and assimilate. Finding content is important to people, be it content they enjoy or content they could potentially be exposed to and enjoy.

damon

@mcc @dgoldsmith Do you mean outside of your instance? I’m a little confused seeing as plenty of clients and Fedi platforms have long used quote posts