Have you ever had a mutual who you interacted with for awhile, and then after some time the quality of the interactions degrade and even sometimes ignore you?
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Have you ever had a mutual who you interacted with for awhile, and then after some time the quality of the interactions degrade and even sometimes ignore you?
This has happened to me many times and most of the time, the other person doesn't sever the relationship, they just seem content with following each other and ignoring me...
It always feels bad and wonder if it's just me.
Am I that insufferable over time?
Maybe I'm overthinking it, but since it's happened a number of times with different people, I can't help but think about it.
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@BeAware Nope you're not insufferable, it's not you.
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@ppb1701 thanks, friend.
I've lost a few friends like this.
Most notably Victor and Sandy from Tooters. One day Sandy blocked me and I didn't know why, then Victor stopped replying to me and interacting with my posts. Then, when the drama happened and they decided to shut down, I replied to their announcement saying I'd miss them and I was sorry for whatever happened and he deleted the post and re-drafted it to remove my reply. That made me really sad.
I've had a few more relationships that felt the same way since then. Even have a current mutual that either ignores me, or replies with 1 or 2 words.