I heard someone say that somebody that is single and entering their 30’s is just sad.
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I heard someone say that somebody that is single and entering their 30’s is just sad. I’m still a few years off from 30 and I’m not looking for a relationship, but I can’t help but feel like I’m not living life “correctly.” I know I shouldn’t care but it’s making me self conscious.
I also refuse to date anyway because I wouldn’t because I love Chika way too much, and any partner would just be second and that isn’t fair to them.
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@fujiwara live your life in the way that makes you happiest!
People and society have these weird expectations of how one should live, and they’re nonsense. If you so much as stray from being with a straight partner, getting married, having kids, buying a house, you’re an oddity to them.
I say screw that, do what feels right to you (so long as you’re not harming yourself or others).
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@coffeentacos I agree that it is all nonsense what people expect of others. I’m gonna be a weirdo to most people anyway, so I might as well embrace it :zerotwoevillaugh: