I want

[gift_of_gab@lemmy.world]

the guy is willingly taking the longer route to the girls favours, by putting her pleasure ahead of his.

No he isn't, he wants to give her head. That's for his pleasure--he enjoys going down on women. Said women aren't fucking obligated to agree just because he's offering.

This is some incel-level shit here.

[gift_of_gab@lemmy.world]

[indepndnt@lemmy.world]

Uh, you're either supposed to complain about censoring or over-analyze the meme. What is this clever, amusing comment? Are you sure you're on the right site?

[user224@lemmy.sdf.org]

Best I can do:

[kusimulkku@lemm.ee]

"Hey I'll suck your dick"

"Wow how considerate"

lol

[qyron@sopuli.xyz]

This is some incel-level shit here.

First time I get remark.

Funny enough, growing up I got tired of hearing women complain their husbands/boyfriends/partners/men in general would always prioritize their own pleasure and pressure to have their interests fullfilled in detriment of the womans needs and expectations.

The dude is actively offering to pleasure the girl. Yes, she is in all of her right to refuse him and his advances, but damn, he is trying to be a bit considerate.

He could just go straight to the point and say he wanted to jump in her pants.

[owl@infosec.pub]

This is kind of meme, that if I had a girlfriend (hypotheticallly that is, I don't have one) and one of my friends (again hypothetical) would send it to her, I would see this as a kind of cheating. Would anyone agree?

[qyron@sopuli.xyz]

My desire to express how that little snippet of dialogue hit me through a visual cue is overwhelming...

Are we going to discuss sexual dynamics next?

Women don't usually need to flaunt their sexual availabilty in order to be approached by men.

But I'll risk that many guys getting that straightforward approach would be really happy to have it.

[touchegoodsir@lemy.lol]

LOL fucking GOTTEM

[vegantomato@lemmy.world]

If I had parents like that, I would cry.

[naught@sh.itjust.works]

what an evocative interpretation. great work

[frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe]

That is considerate. What about it do you think isn't?

[rekorse@sh.itjust.works]

Unironically, you have it right.

[rekorse@sh.itjust.works]

Getting pleasure from providing pleasure does not not negate that its still providing pleasure for someone else.

[kusimulkku@lemm.ee]

It's just funny thing to say

[kusimulkku@lemm.ee]

I really didn't follow what you meant with this reply. I just thought what you wrote earlier was funny

[gift_of_gab@lemmy.world]

First time I get that remark…

Funny enough, growing up I got tired of hearing women complain ...

I believe this is when the kids say 'lol.'

The dude is actively offering to pleasure the girl

No, he's offering to do what he wants to do. It's not universal that women want that; it's not universal that women want anyone to do that; it's not universal that women want that specific person to do that. This is how we got rape in Revenge of the Nerds because a bunch of guys went "yeah but she liked it, right?"

[undaunted@discuss.tchncs.de]

You mean your friend is cheating on you and your friendship? Then yes. Your gf would definitely not be cheating here.

[nelots@lemm.ee]

So if your friend sends your girlfriend a sexual meme, did she just cheat on you? No, that's fucking dumb.

Hell, even if she were the one that sent it to him, it still wouldn't be cheating. But I could at least understand where someone is coming from if they thought it was. Blaming the GF for the friend's actions though? Lol okay.

[theangryseal@lemmy.world]

Damn dude. I want you to be happy, but maybe don’t date until you’ve talked to a therapist about shit like this.