People are all different

[lightfire228@pawb.social]

Mostly boys admiring the boobs or butts of girls

Them: "Yo man, check out her ass... She's so hot"

How i want to reply: "Yep, that's a gluteus maximus, although I don't see her sweating"

[mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works]

Contrary to crappy jokes on TV, most people (even men) aren't thinking about sex 24/7

[acockworkorange@mander.xyz]

I think we can all do without inappropriate meddling into one another’s lives and objectifying. Thanks again.

[savvywolf@pawb.social]

I never really understood why people misunderstand or denounce the experience of ace people...

Ignoring some nuance, it feels like it's simply "feels no or reduced sexual attraction". That sounds pretty clear to me; that feeling you get when you look at a pretty lady? They don't experience that.

Yet there's always statements like "but they have sex!", "But they like being tied up!" and "They're in a relationship!". People gotta overcomplicate things or look for reasons to discredit them, I guess?

[klnsfw@lemmynsfw.com]

I like both, actually

[socsa@piefed.social]

I am a pan-cakeual

[socsa@piefed.social]

I'm not ace but I can't stand that shit. Also the way men feel the need to subtlety bully each other as part of their friendship.

[socsa@piefed.social]

What if I just take a bite?

[syklemil@discuss.tchncs.de]

There are people who don't really enjoy food either. They might be fantasizing about replacing all eating with just taking a pill, or they might be soylent enthusiasts.

There are also people who don't enjoy any music; misophonics.

[2ugly2live@lemmy.world]

I'm glad that Asexuality is getting more attention. So many people have said, "Well, you must be attracted to somebody." To me it's like admiring a pretty vase, or a work of art. I can see that it's beautiful, but I still don't want to have relations with it.

[dragonfucker@lemmy.nz]

There are many good reasons to eat! Hunger! Boredom! Wanting to be the world's fattest man! But not revenge.

[lugal@sopuli.xyz]

True, without article (the or a), your reading totally makes sense

[tonyostrich@lemmy.world]

I genuinely wish I were an aro ace. I am generally able to draw a lot of satisfaction, enjoyment, and contentment from pursuing my hobbies and interests. Unfortunately I still have a very strong drive/desire for relations of all kinds with someone I find mentally and physically attractive. Unfortunately being on the spectrum makes things even more difficult than it already is for everyone in that regard. Such is life though, we all struggle with something.

[phen@lemmy.eco.br]

And here I am, both ace and hate eating.

[ataridump@lemmy.world]

I’ll allow it

[i_love_fft@jlai.lu]

I strongly feel like I'm O+, and there should not be any A or Bs in my public bathrooms!

[clarinet_estimator@lemm.ee]

Being allosexual sounds exhausting. You get some kind of feels for a person just by looking at them? I can't wrap my head around that. Or sex drives. I don't mind participating, but I could live the rest of my life not having sex just like I could live the rest of my life not eating a specific kind of cereal.

To me sex is optional. I don't usually even think about it unless our allo centered world forces me to.

[missjinx@lemmy.world]

I like dick, but I'm not that into sex tbf. Regular sex is just a task for me. But.. since I'm a woman, once a month I get horny as fuck

[icastfist@programming.dev]

Why have sex when you can have cake?

Because the cake is a lie, duh

[bradleyuffner@lemmy.world]

You just haven't met the right vase yet.