misgendering is NEVER okay. even if you dislike somebody
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misgendering is NEVER okay. even if you dislike somebody
anything less than unquestioning respect for whatever pronouns somebody might have shows a severe lack of care for the trans and nonbinary community as a whole. an injury to one is an injury to all
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vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" blackreplied to vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" black last edited by
yes even neopronouns
even it/its
even no pronouns
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vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" blackreplied to vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" black last edited by
if you willingly misgender somebody you're being transphobic. full stop
yes even if you're queer. even if you're trans. even if you think you have a good reason (you don't)
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vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" blackreplied to vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" black last edited by
people who unrepentantly misgender people are transphobes whether they agree with that label or not end of goddamn story
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vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" blackreplied to vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" black last edited by
look i don't care if somebody literally murdered your dog or something you can't fucking misgender them
a lack of respect for one trans identity signals a lack of respect for all of them. you can't pick and choose and still pretend you give a shit about us god damn it
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vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" blackreplied to vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" black last edited by
if you willfully misgender people fuck you. fuck you so hard. i actually literally hope you die. because you know what? that sort of transphobic enbyphobic bullshit kills us ALL THE TIME. maybe not in the moment. not that very instant obviously. but all the hatred adds up and, eventually, can become too much to bear. if you can't even be a decent enough person to use the right pronouns for everybody you have blood on your fucking hands
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vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" blackreplied to vanta "tits out at the bridge rave" black last edited by
by picking and choosing which queer people you use the correct pronouns for you are fostering a climate of hate. i want you to know that. every asshole who thinks it's ever okay