Aight so who was it that wanted to see the horribly traumatizing screenshots I’ve been dealing with?

pancake :butterfly_::neofox_lesbian:

@[email protected] I think we're at a point where we haven't felt so shit using fedi since like June 2023, when the entire shit kicked off with eve

I cannot believe this is basically zero degrees of separation, almost two years later

We very quickly realized we need to separate our lewd (like lewd lewd) stuff, otherwise we'll get into trouble (and the obvious implications of minors attempting to flirt with a 24 year old on main). We might have been in that screenshot if we didn't get a wake up call to build a solid concrete boundary, and realizing having our lewd shit be freely accessible on main is being a massive risk and avoidance -- in fact -- doesn't help situations like that

We're making a full circle with the incidents regarding minors, [-- part omitted for the privacy of people involved --], and honestly I can't blame them from from vanishing from fedi if all it takes is one person knowingly compromising their morals

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] I agree. It’s not just this alone, it’s everything in combination. People kept doing this by saying "why do u hate her for having a matrix" I kept having to go "ITS NOT JUST ABOUT THE FUCKING MATRIX ITS IN COMBINATION WITH THE FACT SHE CANNOT ADMINISTRATE A FEDI INSTANCE"

Alison Faerieland

@puppygirlhornypost2 i was weirded out by this phrase in a screenshot provided in the "meta response" document:

im probably not gonna wanna see your nude body

probably????

Amber 🌸

@faerieland You know, for when you’re indeterminate about whether you want to tell the minor you’re wanting to move in with you what you plan on doing to her

Vivisector "The Mom of Fedi" :veryfriedegg:

@natty @puppygirlhornypost2 yeah
It's absolutely been hell since then
Wish I'd known the absolute hellstorm I'd be getting myself in to
The past year and a half has been a constant assault on my wellbeing and still seeing people so resistant to the fact that this kind of abuse is extremely demoralizing
I wish I had proper words for it

pancake :butterfly_::neofox_lesbian:

@[email protected] @[email protected] we do, disillusioned

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] @[email protected] if I didn’t have so many people I care about in the community who I see engaging, having fun and being sweet to each other I would have lost all faith in humanity. I have to continually remind myself that my job here is to keep those people safe and from seeing the dark side of the world. That is why I am trust & safety, that is why I admin the instance. I remove content other people would have panic attacks from seeing a glimpse of without a thought.

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] @[email protected] And some of this helps explain it. People just do not want to be forced to acknowledge that such horrible things happen in the world. And they especially do not want to acknowledge the fact that it happened in a space close to them.

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] @[email protected] I’m gonna go back to being silly with the community

dirty badwrong person

@puppygirlhornypost2 i had skimmed that log in 10 seconds and i definitely missed this one

Amber 🌸

@[email protected] there’s a lot to unpack, I’ve been told someone has a matrix export but I’m scared to read it if this is what Ashten thought was okay to discuss on discord.