I was telling someone my superpower is people want to give me food all the time.

Adrianna Tan

One time I asked an old friend how we met each other. He laughed and said, remember when you were in Chennai in the late 00s? You were sitting on the road eating a huge bucket of chilli chicken by yourself, and you were so happy you had the chilli chicken, that I decided I wanted to be your friend.

Most of my friends are like that.

Kevin Riggle

@skinnylatte It turns out most people are great, actually. (The world works, I say, because most people want it to work.)

Kevin Riggle

@skinnylatte Honestly every time people were like, how do you live in SoMa, I’m like sure too many of my neighbors live in tents on my sidewalk but we take care of each other

Texas Technician

@skinnylatte in my culture, Texan Hispanic, if you go to a BBQ as a stranger. You'll get told to grab food, "have you eaten", "there's food", "lemme Fox you a plate". By 10 ppl on your way to get a soda.

May Likes Toronto

@skinnylatte I had a story like this! It was my second last day in Yellowknife. I was wandering the city by myself and found myself back at the incredible fish and chips place that I absolutely loved.

I was in heaven with this fish, and the guy next to me hit up a conversation. Then invited me to an impromptu house party with the coolest people I had ever met.

I don't remember any of it, but that was when I figured it'd be a good place to move if I ever wanted to leave Toronto.

Adrianna Tan

@kevinriggle same in the TL

Adrianna Tan

@txtechnician yes, being brought up in Asia in that environment was definitely what started me on it. It’s just so natural

Mx. Aria Stewart

@skinnylatte Same, same, so much the same. Operating from that base assumption of security is so different than nearly everyone around me, and it really does inform so much of how I act in the world. And I end up in similar situations because of it.

Patrick Lam :tinoflag:

@mayintoronto @skinnylatte I had a really excellent fish and chips from Bullock's Bistro, was it there?

May Likes Toronto

@va2lam That was the place! Sooooo good.

Adrianna Tan

@aredridel ooh sounds like we have had a very familiar secure but also free range past!

Adrianna Tan

@mayintoronto @va2lam adding to my list!!

D J Capelis

@skinnylatte Oh interesting. I’ve always felt I’ve been trusting of people generally but now that you mention this I realize how tied into the fact that’s also because I avoid people when my gut says “don’t” on someone.

Adrianna Tan

@djcapelis I feel like people on the spectrum tap into different heuristics and signals about people!

Victor Zambrano

@skinnylatte @dfeldman thought you didn’t like donuts

Adrianna Tan

@argonaut @dfeldman ambivalent about them but if someone gives me one I’ll eat it