@gabriele @Dunpiteog come opzione decentralizzata c'è anche xmpp, ma non ho idea di quanto accessibili siano i client

di sicuro da hostare è estremamente più semplice di matrix (e io che non ho particolari esigenze di accessibilità mi trovo bene anche coi client)

@Jerry @debacle @_elena I'm in a similar situation, and I've used a bit of a stick-and-carrot approach where I'm only available on xmpp (or email. nobody seems to have taken up the postcard option ), but I've also offered family members accounts on my server, to ease their onboarding.

(for convenience I also host accounts for a few friends, but in that case I have the requirement that they provide the domain, so that they can easily migrate elsewhere if they so decide)