@jenniferplusplus That's not my intention, and I sincerely apologize for making that impression. I've been in such places a few times too many, merely empathized and wanted to express my sympathies, no disrespect.
That didn't go too well. I'm weird that way, perhaps got a bit triggered, and I'm sorry for bothering you. I shall choose my words more carefully and, considering my usual level of overthinking, will in all likelihood remain mostly silent. Greater losses have indeed been suffered