@mahryekuh there's another one going around my workplace (blanking on the name) that hooks into the OS audio feed and records everything. So there's no bot that joins the meeting, and it circumvents Zoom's features that show the meeting is being recorded.

They bill this as a benefit, sparing their users from the awkwardness of having to explain why a bot is joining the meeting.

@dvdlite @hazelweakly also "Radical Acceptance" is in adjacent territory, re dealing with difficult circumstances/feelings/people. (Much misunderstood title, it's not about "being okay with everything".)

@dvdlite @hazelweakly caveat: situations behind sentiments like these can vary enormously, and I don't presume to diagnose or label anyone.

"Codependent No More" discusses this dynamic of self-sacrifice / resentment. It does propose some labels, which helped me identify some deep-seated patterns in my own behaviour.

"You Are The One You've Been Waiting For" haven't read yet, my therapist recommended it. Views unhealthy relationship patterns from an IFS ("parts") perspective.

@hazelweakly flight attendants knew this all along: "ensure your own mask is in place before helping others with theirs". I've been deeply reflecting on this recently.

You didn't ask for advice, but I have related book recommendations if they'd be helpful.