When some tradwife says that feminist harpies want to keep women out of the home you can respond that feminism is about women being able ro make rheir own choices, that's a fair answer. Personally a feminist response I'd like to see more is that feminism recognizes that tradwives are doing (or cosplaying) work.Women who stay at home are making sacrifices for their partner, effectively putting in huge amounts of labor which allows their partner to have more time and energy for work, education, advancement, etc. Taking care of children is work, which we recognize when nannies and daycare workers do it. Cleaning a home is work, which we recognize when maids and cleaners do it. Cooking is work, which we recognize when chefs do it. Etc. And of course, a woman who stays at home is losing out on career advancement and work experience, so if she does ever need or want to get into a profession she'll be years behind where she would have been. All of this *is* a choice that women (and other folks) can make and do make all the time, but that doesn't mean they aren't doing a lot of labor and making a lot of sacrifice for their partner. In a sense the tradwife propaganda says "doesn't this look wonderful?" and at least one feminist response is "sure, but like anything good it's a lot of work and that deserves recognition". It's the tradwives who are arguing that their vision of feminine labor is without value, not the feminists.