@collectifission It’s not looking great. There’s better sources than me for this, but to help you in your search:
tech[.]lgbt has had some moderation slipups they’ve doubled down on, causing them to be defederated from a sizeable amount of instances.
There’s still indication that they don’t take covert racist behaviour from their users serious, and if nederland[.]gay takes moderation advice from them, it would mean that covert racism also is okay there. Their answer to me furthered this fear.