There is recurring struggle around this phenomenon more broadly that we might call invisible ubiquity, when how we move in the world comes from something we are so deeply embedded in that we not only don't remember learning it, but that we learned it.
People outside the structure have trouble believing people inside it can't see it. But they can't.
Our cultures have a wide variety of circumlocutions that vaguely try to refer to this, or even to precipitate the perceptual shift, because it's usually otherwise impossible simply to tell someone about something they lack a frame of reference to perceive, either from inside or outside.
https://dice.camp/@johnzajac/113021563622216951