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[email protected] what you're experiencing is a protocol that is largely still in development. The specification is largely solidified but implementations differ widely for numerous reasons.
I implore you not to write off the fediverse for those reasons, ActivityPub is still in a nascent, growing stage, and rough edges will be smoothed over in time.
To expect a panacea is naive at this time, but the optimism and potential are both there.
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