always remember that those that detransition are valid too. to those thst detransitioned: sometimes you just realize that transition isn't the right thing for you or isn't how you expected/wanted it to be, and that is okay.you aren't a traitor or a fake for detransitioning, the most important thing in the end is that you are becoming more like the way you want to be.to those amongst the trans community: respect your detransitioned siblings, keep welcoming them into trans-spaces, and help them if they want help detransitioning.to all that see detransition as "proof" that being trans is fake or dangerous or some other transphobic bullshit: fuck off and eat shit

digital feudalism:icann - popedata center operators - kings and emperorsserver admins - lordsmoderators - knightsusers - peasants

remember to always roll your own cryptography.home-grown cryptography is much more environment friendly than using industrially grown cryptography which can contain unhealthy chemicals and toxins

@[email protected] "We're required by law to use your legal name in this situation. Oh, what's that, we have the wrong legal name for you in our computer system? Let's update it...hold on, a bug makes it so it would be hard to update it so we're gonna keep using your deadname even though it's not your legal name and we literally just told you we're legally required to use your real name."--AT&T customer support. Also, briefly, my university HR department (but they fixed the bug eventually).