I think http://forums.afraidtoask.com/ might actually be one of the largest (if not the largest)
lol who the hell downvoted this?
I've been trying to figure this out for the last few days. I've been using this tutorial and I am on digital ocean as well.
Someone please help!
logan@nodebb:~/mynodebb$ node app --setup
10/2 12:02  - info: NodeBB v0.7.0-dev Copyright (C) 2013-2014 NodeBB Inc.
10/2 12:02  - info: This program comes with ABSOLUTELY NO WARRANTY.
10/2 12:02  - info: This is free software, and you are welcome to redistribute it under certain conditions.
10/2 12:02  - info:
10/2 12:02  - info: NodeBB Setup Triggered via Command Line
10/2 12:02  - info: Welcome to NodeBB!
10/2 12:02  - info: This looks like a new installation, so you'll have to answer a few questions about your environment before we can proceed.
10/2 12:02  - info: Press enter to accept the default setting (shown in brackets).
URL used to access this NodeBB (http://18.104.22.168) http://22.214.171.124
Please enter a NodeBB secret (014eccd1-a4b6-42a0-bb83-4db2c215abb2)
Which database to use (redis)
10/2 12:02  - info: Now configuring redis database:
Host IP or address of your Redis instance (127.0.0.1)
Host port of your Redis instance (6379)
Password of your Redis database
Which database to use (0..n) (0)
10/2 12:02  - info: Configuration Saved OK
npm WARN package.json email@example.com No README data
npm WARN package.json firstname.lastname@example.org No repository field.
10/2 12:02  - warn: NodeBB Setup Aborted. The package nodebb-theme-vanilla does not satisfy its siblings' peerDependencies requirements!