EDIT:
OK new question, I got past my initial issue, now when i run ./nodebb setup and get to
Please enter a NodeBB secret (8939fe81-77a1-4254-ad51-40ad23b48c81)
whether I go with the default value and hit enter, or enter something else it just freezes. And i'll need to kill the session running it to make it stop. Anyone know what could be causing this?