Don't @ me about structural problems. I know. I'm aware of patriarchal violence and rape culture. It's hard not to. Most rapists are men. Most victims are women. Nobody is arguing with that.
This post is dedicated to men and nonbinary people who have been raped. It is also dedicated to people who have been raped by women or nonbinary people.
Your pain and trauma, as well as your achievement of having worked through it are not invisible. I'm one of you.