When your human goes into the pantry not even 4 hours before your dinner time and doesn't bring you your dinner

@nicholasr @dansup @mastodonmigration I think the point of opening threads to the fediverse was to take over and eliminate the competition. I don't really see that working for them though since so many of us are specifically on here to avoid the corporate web

@forestine a lot of white trans people, regardless of ASAB or gender, have not deconstructed white supremacist beauty standards at all, so then we have transfems thinking they're ugly unless they can perfectly replicate cis white womanhood, and trans ppl who were AFAB struggling to still find ourselves attractive once we leave it behind
It's really sad, and ends up harming TBIPOC even more

@forestine even transmascs on T love to hop on this trend, complaining about bottom growth and ass hair
The latter at least has been entirely white people from what I've seen
And I'm just like... Wait, you guys didn't have ass hair?
Any deviation from white femininity beauty ideals is seen as uglier bc of white supremacy but I actually fucking hate the white femininity box and Do Not Want It and that's a big part of why I wanted to take T in the first place???

#askFedi
If I had an old account on a server that's been deleted for like 2 years now, how likely is it that those posts are still floating around somewhere in another server's cache? If I delete posts from this account, how long are they likely to stay in other servers' caches? I frankly have no idea how any of this works I'm just spitting out buzz words from other posts I've seen

Not condoning the AK47 thing but I think that admin announcement on tenforward I just boosted was totally normal actually and people don't owe you free stuff
When I heard abt it from secondary sources they made it sound like it was greed but like, not everyone can afford to just pay a bunch out of their pocket to host everyone for free and it's not greedy to try to break even
Just use a different server if you don't want to pay!
He's not even kicking ppl out, just closing registration

@skinnylatte @ideogram I can't tell if this is a disagreement or an addition but for the record, I'm not trying to say America is the worst. More that, despite how horrible it is here, it's kinda horrible everywhere. Often as a result of US imperialism, or European imperialism.
I maintain that a lot of immigrants were lied to about the American Dream. How it goes is going to heavily depend on race, education, and connections, but is it really that great for the average person?

@ideogram @skinnylatte what you have to remember is that every problem in the US is also made into everyone else's problem. People still immigrate to this horrible country because, largely due to this horrible country, conditions in their home country are even worse. Or, in some cases, they're not much worse but everyone lies to them about how good it is here. No one is immune to propaganda

@puppygirlhornypost2 @Mandy I mean, the ability to transition medically IS a privilege... But it's not like those who have that privilege are at fault for the rest of us not having it
I wish we could talk about privileges and be aware of them without someone using that as an excuse to hate random innocent people

@nat I had to

@aud @ada @ivy should have known a fedi TikTok was too good to be true with ads that's just TikTok