@laxla I don't think I would even want to learn all those assumptions, because I would have to pretend to be someone I'm not (mask) in order to act on them.
@laxla I guess the core thing I was getting at originally is that autistic people inherently don't do the biggest communication mistake, assuming, yet are labeled by neurotypicals doing science about neurodivergent folks as the ones who are less functional, when really we know now that different neurotypes just communicate differently. It's just a bit silly.