@Ernest-L.-Defoe Thanks for the answer. Well I use a VPS so everything needs to be done manually, no one click installs here

I got many problems with nodebb.
Firstly it wont stay online all the time, sometimes it just goes offline randomly. I can only get it online by running it in dev mode.
I cant access the forum with my domain name only by the ip.
I cant remove the port from the url even after I followed the instructions on how to proxy it with apache.
What the actual fuck is this? why not make a god damn forum that you can upload with FTP to the apache directory and use MySQL like a normal site? Im getting so frustrated from this. I have tried to fix it the last 5 hours. Btw there are no errors. it just dont work correctly.