"I can host my own single user server for $6/month".
Right. That's nice, but that comes with other limitations. Like, you are seeing someone's post and the replies that you see might be different from the replies that people from other server see.
This would not happen on ATProto because the way it works is different. And that's why, coming back to my first reply, that I think there's room for both and we don't need to root for one to win over another.