We really, really, REALLY need some good resources on arousal, orgasm, and sex for trans folks.
I don't mean just "tips and tricks" or "things to avoid" and "how to have a super happy fun time" but also stuff like "biologically, here's what we know about arousal and orgasm and sex, and here's how HRT has changed things inside you, and how that might manifest in you".
Because I have gotten some WTF results. Great, amazing, happy good time yes -- but also "what the fuck was THAT" as a weird side note.
But I have a catalog of "different types of orgasm" and "different ways arousal manifests" and I keep adding new ones.
And I'm such a giant geek that I want to know everything. For myself, for others, just to know because I like learning.
But also because, well, it's quite fun and I'm always keen to raise my game.