Discord please where tf are my notifications

just give them to me please

- posted by Chloe

@[email protected] @[email protected] tbf tf.s has always seemed to have a troubled relationship with minors on its instance....

- posted by Chloe

Ok, even setting the other accusations aside it's extremely clear that you a) changed the server rules to allow them to stay on and b) lied to the rest of moderators to not delete the account. If that's not an abuse of power i don't know what is

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@Transbian_Arsonists ashtens shitty reply to leah's accusations

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No, actually. They prove them quite conclusively. Stop lying to everyone and just take accountability for your actions.

- posted by Chloe

Can't tell if this feeling in my stomach is because of something I ate or something I did

- posted by Chloe

@[email protected] I've noticed that a lot of people just don't know what's going on and all they see is "you're blocking all my friends"

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I feel like every time there's new drama about ashten/woem.men I go through the same cycle

new accusation drops "surely thats not true, it's probably just ashten getting targeted"
evidence starts circulating "ok, maybe this is worth looking into, but I'll keep my distance"
a day or so passes "ok maybe I should stay away from ashten, she doesn't seem to be as good as I originally thought"
after a few weeks to months "hmm, nothings happened with ashten lately, maybe I'll give her another chance"

I usually don't like to jump to conclusions, and when all of a sudden one of your acquaintances gets accused of something major like this it can be hard to believe, especially if you don't know them super closely. But this time I think I've had enough. Usually I'd just go, "oh it doesn't really involve me, whatever, just maybe stay away from ashten" but now I've seen that some of my mutuals have been affected by ashten's poor choices, in some exceedingly negative ways, that I should have seen earlier (and I'm sorry for that).

In any case, I feel like a lot of the problems with woem.men are simply problems with ashten that unfortunately end up affecting the entire site. I have almost never heard an actual complaint about the users of woem.men, except for the groomers that ashten evidently enabled.

I really do wonder if it would be better for the woem.men community as a whole if ashten stepped down from running woem.men and was no longer the "face" of woem.men.

I know she has said she doesn't want to because "it's what's best for the community" but what's best for the community is for them to have a safe place that isn't constantly being thrown around because of her actions. Having an enabler as the head of the instance will not make the problems go away. There needs to be a major change in leadership or we're just going to keep having these problems.

- posted by Chloe

Ooh, nice, another discord to join then never talk in :3

- posted by Chloe

@[email protected] @[email protected] @[email protected]

woem wave

https://kitsunes.club/notes/a1pi3kvhxn

Then right above it in my tl:
https://social.atiusamy.com/notes/a1pe8ji8rop70212

- posted by Chloe

Oh my god the irony lol

- posted by Chloe

@[email protected] you sound like you're having a busy morning (please do not elaborate I don't really need to know)

- posted by Chloe

good mornyan fedi!

- posted by Chloe

wtf

Why can I not do a black and white copy on this printer when it's only out of color ink?

- posted by Chloe

shoutout to the mutuals you almost never interact with

- posted by Chloe

So is kitsu down?

- posted by Chloe

Why do people still put a . or something in the body of their cw boosts? Sharkey supports cw-only boosts

- posted by Chloe

@[email protected] @[email protected] @[email protected] wait I thought you were supposed to heat the bed to your print temp before probing so it would actually be accurate when you print?

- posted by Chloe

idk what to do rn....

- posted by Chloe