@FediTips @mastodonmigration apparently several people have run their own relays for personal use but it's not for the faint of heart apparently you need several terabytes of preferably solid state storage and a very fast network connection and while the code for the relay server is public it isn't terribly well documented
Take a look at these links if you'd like to learn more
https://alice.bsky.sh/post/3laega7icmi2q
Notes on Running a Full-Network atproto Relay (July 2024) | bryan newbold
These are some informal notes on setting up a full-network atproto Relay, using the bigsky relay software developed by Bluesky. This is the same software we run ourselves at https://bsky.network. The focus here is on the compute resources necessary to replicate the type of full-network, full-feature...
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