In my original post, I setup Vanish Cache behind Apache in hopes that the connection reuse would keep the site from dying. I got Varnish Cache working and NodeBB is still dying randomly. On further investigation, I think Apache is killing the nodebb instance. Could someone with more Apache knowledge take a look at my error.log?
##Apache Error.log
http://fpaste.org/103093/14005104/
##Apache Access.log
I think this jerk is essentially DDoSing the site and causing either the Apache Proxy or the NodeBB to die. But how?
http://fpaste.org/103095/00510483/
##NodeBB Output.log
http://fpaste.org/103097/14005106/
##NodeBB Error Log
It only happened from last night on, so I believe only the last entry is relevant.
{"level":"error","message":"EACCES, open '/var/www/nodebb/socket.log'","timestamp":"2014-05-18T23:02:59.642Z"}
{"level":"error","message":"[[error:too-many-posts, 10]]","timestamp":"2014-05-19T00:00:00.746Z"}
{"level":"error","message":"EACCES, open '/var/www/nodebb/socket.log'","timestamp":"2014-05-19T03:53:33.291Z"}
{"level":"error","message":"[[error:too-many-posts, 10]]","timestamp":"2014-05-19T11:00:00.564Z"}